Showing posts with label Baby Tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Baby Tips. Show all posts

Friday, February 4, 2011

Back to Basics During the Blizzard of 2011

Don't get me wrong, I love all of Baby J's "things" that soothe her and keep her warm, dry, calm, and happy. At any given time we have many options to keep her stimulated and entertained: the mamaRoo, The Skip Hop play mat, toys from Tiny Love, Baby Einstein and Lamaze, and as many of you know, I couldn't live without my Little Lamb Swing from Fisher-Price. But the Blizzard of 2011 has given me new perspective to the meaning of "Going Back to the Basics."

When the storm hit I was home alone with Baby J and our dog. My husband was on a weeklong business trip. Great timing I know. We were hunkered down on Tuesday night and with a flicker of the lights we lost our power.

Thankfully I had made a few preparations: gathered some warm clothes, made a few bottles, and took out a flashlight. But I couldn't help but panic. I knew that the house was going to get cold---it was only 11pm. I wondered how long the power would be out and when we would be able to get out of the house. I figured I could bundle J and put her in the bed with me; but then I would have to stay up all night to make sure she was kept safe. For the first time in a long time I was very scared.

My cell phone wasn't working, but BBM was. I had a couple friends trying to figure out what I should do. I thought quick and got a hold of my friend who lives very close and has a Pathfinder. Without a second thought her husband jumped in the car and came evacuate all three of us to warmth and safety.

Before he came it was dark and I couldn't see very much---so I threw J's basic necessities in a bag: diapers, wipes, diaper cream, the bottles, formula, and a few changes of clothes. I grabbed my breast pump and piled it into the bassinet from her Stokke Xplory which I figured she could sleep in. It sounds like a lot, but given what is in the usual arsenal, this was nothing. With some quick thinking I remembered all of my frozen breast milk in the freezer and grabbed that too. I sure as hell was not going to let all of that hard work go down the drain (literally) because of some snow!

We weren't even gone for 24 hours before the power came back on and we were able to get the Pathfinder out of the garage to return home. J was a little out of her element--instead of the lamb swing we laid on a blanket on the floor or I held her; instead of her crib we napped in the bassinet which was a little too small for her long legs, and instead of music from the ipod, I sang her some songs (which probably made her cringe).

It all made me realize that while all of the "things" are great----we all definitely have a tendency to over prepare, over stimulate and over purchase for our babies. Going back to the basics was a great exercise. Maybe now when I leave the house I won't take everything but the kitchen sink? (Really, who am I kidding?) If anything, this all made for a great story for J when she is big enough to understand.

And the best part of the story? J basically jumped out of my arms into her Little Lamb when we got home; and of course I was thrilled to put my feet up and watch her for a few quiet moments.



Monday, December 13, 2010

SwaddleMe by Summer Infant

Recommended By: Lindsay Pinchuk, Chicago

From week three, Baby J has been busting out of her swaddles. I was not sure if she didn’t like it, or if we weren’t making it tight enough. All in all, she is a good sleeper, so I didn’t think anything of it. However like any baby, she too has her moments and her bad nights. It made me wonder if I could do anything to help her sleep more soundly.

More than a few people told me to use the sleep sacks with the removable Velcro arms. The product reminded me of a straight jacket at first, but after the last two nights I am forever converted.

Three nights ago we put Baby J in the Sumer Infant organic cotton SwaddleMe. (I chose this one at the store because the size went up to 14lbs and wanted to get as much wear out of it as possible.) BABY J SLEPT WITHOUT WAKING UP FOR OVER 10 HOURS TWO NIGHTS IN A ROW! Who knows if this was just a fluke, but she certainly seemed content. Not only did she get a good night’s sleep, but her tired parents (surprisingly) did too! I hope that I am not jinxing her sleep habits with this blogpost.

Recommended By: Katie Asner, Chicago

I can't live without the fleece swaddle sleep sacks (either Halo or Summer). Hazel slept 6 hours her first night in it when she was 3 days old and has been STTN since 5 weeks old. I dread the moment we have to give up swaddling!!

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Still waiting---and that's just fine....

Today is my due date---October 7, 2010. The baby is not here, and she is showing no signs of arriving anytime soon (at least I don't think she is), but in all honesty---that is ok---I know she will be here soon.

Remember, your due date is an estimate, a pure guess, it's not a science. I promise you that if you subscribe to this notion, you will feel much better (and less disappointed) if your baby is not on-time or even early. I had lunch with a friend today and she told me that I seemed unbelievably calm. I responded to her with a secret that I am going to share with you---especially as many of you are waiting for your own little ones to arrive. I recently have heard so many women venting their frustrations that their babies were not here---and many of them were not even due yet! There is nothing you can do to speed it up or make it happen. I know that my baby will arrive when she is ready, whether on her own or next Thursday if they have to induce me. I came to terms with the fact that she may not be here early a couple weeks ago and have been taking advantage of the time I have left to and with myself.

I will be honest---it's very comforting to know that they will induce me a week after my due date if she is not here by then. In the meantime, I have found that there is no use in making myself crazy, getting worked up, or even spending a millisecond worrying about when she is going to decide to arrive---it is out of my control. While I may be big, and things can get a little uncomfortable, I overall feel great, which I think too is something that starts with a positive attitude and putting myself in a stress-free environment. My weekly e-newsletter from FitPregnancy served the BEST advice this week:

Don’t be surprised if you get discouraged now. Relatives may be calling regularly to find out if labor has started. Ignore them and make plans every day - see a movie, take a walk, read or simply lounge around at home. Relish this peaceful time while it lasts!

While I am not a religious person, I almost felt like this was a sign from someone above. This is EXACTLY what I have been doing and now that my actions have been validated I feel much better about it. (So if you don't hear back from me, now you know why :)) My advice to you if you are waiting, follow these two sentences and STAY BUSY.

I am still working, which many people are shocked about when I tell them. But what am I supposed to do? Sit and home and watch Kathie Lee & Hoda, Oprah, Bonnie and Ellen all day while I wait for Baby Girl Pinchuk to arrive? I'd rather poke my eyes out. While it is a bit physically taxing to go into the Loop every day, it's nice to go into an office, interact with people, and stay busy to keep my mind off of "the wait." I make plans for lunch with friends and colleagues, which is much better than making a sandwich and eating alone on my couch. Tonight I went to a benefit for a committee I have been a part of for years. I didn't think I would make it this year, so it was a nice surprise to be able to go and hang out with all of my friends. We even have dinner reservations and plans for this weekend. If we have to cancel them because we are at Prentice, oh well! :)

I had originally assumed that the baby would be here by now. But because my baby is not here yet, I all of a sudden have found time---something that I have not had in ages. I am relishing in it, utilizing it, and taking advantage of these last few quiet moments I have left. Last night I went to bed before 1am for the first time in probably six months!

SO the moral of the story---the wait is only as bad or "torturous" as you make it. Don't let everyone and anyone make you crazy. Instead, stay positive and ENJOY the time you have left. I promise that it will make things that much better once your baby decides to poke his/her head out!

Sunday, September 26, 2010

The Waiting Game

It's September 26, 2010 and I have eleven days until my due date. I am walking around feeling like a ticking time bomb. It's now more possible than ever for my water to break and I can into labor at any second. It doesn't help that everyone keeps saying "any day now." Because literally, it could be at any moment. What if I am in the grocery store, walking in the loop during lunch hour, or in the suburbs at Buy Buy Baby (this option may be best)? The anxiety of the wait is almost as bad as that of the anticipation of my impending delivery.

I am trying my hardest to keep busy and keep my mind off what is to come. While I definitely have been doing some of your typical "nesting" tasks, such as preparing the baby's room, washing her clothes and cleaning out random areas of my house, I also am trying to take advantage of these last baby free days.

I spent the last two Saturdays hanging out with some of my closest friends. We had brunch, got manicures and pedicures and just caught up on everything, both having to do with the baby and otherwise---mainly the "otherwise." My husband and I went out to dinner just the two of us on Saturday night. I passed some time this Sunday pampering myself with an AMAZING pre-natal massage at Soulistic Studio and Spa. My therapist, Kara, was amazing. She took a lot of stress out of my back and worked endlessly on my tight hips. I highly suggest checking this place out! (BCC VIPs, you get a discount here!)

Regardless of WHEN the baby decides to come, I know that her timing is well out of my hands. For now, I am concentrating on ME, with no apologies. I am making sure I am ready both mentally and physically, and am trying to get as much rest as I possibly can. I know that life is about to change---only for the better. While the waiting has me anxiety ridden, it also has me filled to the brim with an excitement like no other. My best advice to all of you who are also waiting---stay busy, do what you can, and know that you can always ask for help doing the rest of your baby decides to show up early!


Sunday, August 29, 2010

BABY FOOD: HOMEMADE OR STORE-BOUGHT???

From BCC's Resident Mom Expert, Julie Schwartz Heller

A lot of people ask me if it's “worth it” to make your baby’s food as opposed to buying it at the store, so here’s the lowdown… I enjoy cooking and always thought it would be fun to make baby food, and since my sister was able to do it for my nephew while working full-time, I figured I was up to the task.

My daughter Zoe has a healthy appetite, so when she maxed out at 32 ounces of breastmilk/formula per day (the limit my pediatrician suggested) at around 4 ½ months, my husband and I decided it was time to introduce solid foods. We had little luck with rice cereal and oatmeal, so our pediatrician suggested that we try apples or another fruit or vegetable. I wanted to introduce a vegetable before a sweeter fruit like apples, so I steamed and pureed butternut squash and like magic, Zoe downed her entire serving in just minutes!

I was lucky enough to get a food schedule from my sister that provided a good order for introducing new foods, beginning with yellow and orange ones that are easier to process and working up to greens which can be more difficult to digest. I made everything from simple mashed bananas and avocados to steamed green beans and baked sweet potatoes to pureed peaches and cherries. I also pureed garbanzo beans, essentially creating homemade hummus, and I poached and pureed chicken breasts.

When Zoe grew older, I began making sauces and creating full meals such as homemade macaroni and cheese with broccoli, chicken with apples and sweet potato, butternut squash pasta, and quinoa with broccoli, carrots and cauliflower, with a bit of help from a book titled First Meals by Annabel Karmel. Zoe is now 20 months old and I am proud to say that the majority of her food is still homemade.

I am often asked whether it is more economical to make baby food or to buy it, and the answer is that it depends on the type of food. Certain foods like squash, potatoes and bananas are far cheaper to make yourself, but other foods such as peaches, pears and apples can be cheaper to buy prepared, especially when it comes to the organic variety. I often make simple things for Zoe such as apple cinnamon oatmeal and macaroni & cheese with veggies instead of buying the boxed versions, and I find that these are not only more nutritious, they also make a smaller dent in my grocery bill. For example, I make the oatmeal with Whole Foods 365 Organic Quick Oats, Trader Joe’s Organic Unsweeted Applesauce and a dash of cinnamon. For approximately 15 cents I give her ¼ cup serving of this homemade version, while a leading brand of organic apple cinnamon oatmeal costs 45 cents for the same size portion. While 30 cents may not seem like a huge hit to your bank account, if Zoe eats this meal roughly 4 times a week, that’s a savings of $62 per year, and if I substituted this meal everyday for a leading brand of organic yogurt which costs about 75 cents, we would save $219 per year!

Another consideration is that while you can make most baby food with a food processor and ice cube trays, your existing kitchen supplies may contain BPA and you may therefore end up investing money in new BPA-free items such as the Beaba Babycook which steams, purees and reheats food, and Babycubes in which you can store and freeze food.

I found that Target had the cheapest and widest selection of organic baby food; however I could not always find the exact foods or combinations I wanted to give Zoe. For me, the largest benefit of making my own baby food was that I had complete control over the portion sizes and combinations. There were very few foods Zoe did not care for when she was younger (that all changed once she became an opinionated toddler!), but when I came across a food she did not like, I was successful in mixing it with something she loved, such as bananas and avocado, zucchini and apple, or green beans and sweet potatoes, none of which are available in store brands. I must admit that I greatly preferred the consistency and smell of my homemade food over the jarred equivalents, particularly in the case of combinations containing cereal, pasta or other starches or grains.

A few final thoughts regarding homemade food…1) you know exactly what is in the food you make and likely have less risk of contamination; 2) you don’t have to worry about certain issues such as whether the store bought jars are lined with BPA; 3) certain fresh fruits and vegetables are not available throughout the year, although I found frozen ones to be a good year-round option and often cheaper; 4) while jarred food can be stored and served at room temperature, homemade food generally needs to be refrigerated or frozen within an hour, and thus prior to serving it needs to be thawed and warmed; and finally, 5) it is VERY time-consuming to make baby food, and you run the risk that your child may spit it out! I’ll never forget when my friend told me she spent a couple of hours making her son homemade chicken nuggets to end up with just a few pieces that he quickly tossed on the floor!!!

The bottom line is that if you have the time and enjoy cooking, then why not attempt to make your baby’s food…but if you don’t fall into both of these categories or it just doesn’t sound like fun to you, then you can’t go wrong with store bought food either. Happy feeding!